Slow onions, and why I stopped hurrying them
There is a kind of onion — brown, soft, a little sticky — that you only get by waiting. Not simmering, not frying, but something in between. I used to skip it. Now I plan around it.
The trick is a wide pan and a slightly-too-low heat. If you hear sizzling, you've gone too far. If you hear nothing, you're close.